There are times when you say something and others would think that it's all about them, when in fact your thoughts are directed either a: to no one in particular, or b: to someone else, but not the person who's reacting to what you said.
What's the best word to describe these types of people?
How do we deal with these people?
The best way is just to go on with your life. Laugh at the things that make you laugh, get angry at those which make you angry, laugh with the people who make you laugh and happy, celebrate life or basically, just continue living your life long before these paranoid schizoids appeared in the sidelines of your life.
If they still think that all you say or do is directed against them, shrug your shoulders, hold your head up high and just keep moving forward, ignoring those which are unimportant, because at the end of the day, it's just background noise which is making your life a little bit more amusing.